Your Worth is The Secret Weapon To Success
Do you ever feel like all the success and good things coming your way are just luck? Like maybe you’ve somehow tricked everyone into believing you’re more capable than you actually are?
If you’re nodding along, I get it - because that used to be me, too. No matter how many goals I manifested or wins I achieved, I always felt like an imposter, waiting for the world to figure out I didn’t really deserve it.
But here’s the thing: our success isn’t about luck or outside circumstances. It’s about what we truly believe about ourselves, deep down. And if you don’t believe you’re worthy, no amount of external success will feel real.
Let’s talk about how to change that.
I’ve always felt like I was less than a lot of people, and I know many of my Burmese clients feel the same way. Culturally, we tend to hold back and undervalue ourselves, and that mindset has definitely followed me throughout my journey.
I often thought, ‘Who’s going to listen to me? What I have to say doesn’t really matter.’
I would hold myself back, especially in situations where everyone seemed so outspoken and confident. I’m not the loudest person in the room, and I’ve never been naturally extroverted. In leadership trainings or events, while others were quick to share, my mind would go blank the moment it was my turn to speak.
But despite all those doubts, I kept going. Little by little, I started creating success, and eventually, my business exploded. That was the moment I realized—I must be doing something right. People actually do want to hear what I have to say. And that’s when I understood that worthiness is not about being the loudest or most extroverted person in the room—it’s about owning your value, believing in yourself, and knowing that your voice matters.
Now, if you’ve ever felt like this, don’t worry - you’re not alone.
Feeling like an imposter happens to the best of us, but it doesn’t have to hold you back.
Here are 14 things I’ve done to shift my mindset, build my self-worth, and step fully into my power. And guess what? You can do these things, too.
1. Write a letter to your future self
Take some time to write a letter to your future self, describing how you’ll feel when you’ve overcome imposter syndrome. Be specific about the successes you want to celebrate and how you’ll have grown by then. There’s something powerful about envisioning a future where you’ve already won.
2. Record yourself talking about a win and listen back to it
Grab your phone, hit record, and talk about a recent success. When you listen back, you’ll hear your own voice acknowledging your achievement. It’s like giving yourself a high-five and realizing, “Wow, I did that!”
3. Celebrate one tiny win each day with a ritual
Every day, no matter how small the victory, celebrate it. Light a candle, dance around the room, or take a few minutes to just sit in gratitude. Those little wins add up to big changes.
4. Host a small workshop on a topic you know well
Pick something you’re great at and share it. Whether it’s a mini-webinar or a small workshop, teaching others will remind you how much you know and the value you bring to the table. When others benefit from your knowledge, it reaffirms your worth.
5. Give yourself permission to take a break without guilt
This is a big one. Stop pushing through exhaustion and allow yourself to rest. When you take breaks, you acknowledge that your well-being matters. Your worth isn’t tied to constant productivity - sometimes the most powerful thing you can do is give yourself the rest you deserve.
6. Send a thank-you note to yourself for something you accomplished
Yes, a thank-you note - to yourself. Take a moment to write down something specific you achieved recently and acknowledge the hard work it took to get there. Show yourself the appreciation you’d show a friend.
7. Take a walk and reflect on your last big success
Get outside, breathe, and think about a big win you’ve had recently. Sometimes we’re so focused on what’s next that we forget to reflect on how far we’ve come. Walking and reflecting is a powerful combination for reminding yourself, “I’ve done great things, and I’ll do more.”
8. Set a boundary with someone and feel your strength
Setting boundaries is an act of self-worth. Whether you’re saying no to a project or asking for more time, take note of how powerful it feels to honor your needs. It’s in those moments you remind yourself, “I deserve this.”
Master the inner voices within and lead your life like a true CEO
Imagine stepping into your life with full clarity, confidence, and command - where every part of you is aligned and working toward your goals. This is where you get into alignment. It’s about mastering the most powerful tool you have: YOU 😇
9. Dress up in something that makes you feel powerful
There’s something about putting on an outfit that makes you feel unstoppable. Even if you’re just working from home, dressing the part can shift your mindset and remind you of your strength and value.
10. Do one thing outside your comfort zone this week
Confidence grows in discomfort. Whether it’s speaking up in a meeting or starting a new project, challenge yourself to step outside your comfort zone. When you do, you’ll realize just how capable you are.
11. Say “no” to something that doesn’t serve you
Turn down something that doesn’t align with your goals or values. Saying no isn’t just about declining an offer; it’s about saying yes to yourself. Every time you say no to something that doesn’t serve you, you reinforce that your time and energy are valuable.
12. Create a brag sheet
Make a list of your biggest accomplishments - yes, brag a little! Revisit it whenever those feelings of doubt creep in. Seeing your successes on paper helps you internalize them, reminding you that you are worthy of everything you’ve achieved.
13. Set weekly micro-goals
Break down big goals into smaller, manageable tasks. Each week, set micro-goals and celebrate their completion. These small wins build momentum and remind you that every step forward matters.
14. Track your impact numbers
Keep track of how many people you’ve helped, sales you’ve made, or milestones you’ve reached. Quantifying your impact provides tangible proof of your value, and sometimes seeing the numbers is the best reminder that you’re making a real difference.
Imposter syndrome doesn’t stand a chance when you start showing up for yourself in these ways.
Remember, your worth is not up for debate. You’ve already proven that you’re capable - you just need to believe it. Now, it’s time to own your success and step into the person you’ve always been meant to be.
xo Arabelle
Arabelle is a Speaker, Entrepreneur, creative, CEO, and solo mama. With a background in investment banking, she helps clients in over 110 countries unlock potential and pursue freedom. She lives between Dubai and Perth, believing real change starts from within.